What Do Men Want from You in Bed

Use of Hands by Women

Men like the excessive use of hands by their ladies. These gestures of hands not only make them feel special but it also makes them believe that they are doing something absolutely right. Men really like the acts like gripping of arms, especially when he is on the top. Other appreciable acts include grabbing of ass, wrapping of her arms around man’s body and pulling his hair wildly.

He Wants Dominance!

Just like any other field of life, even in bed, men want to be dominant sexually. Most of the men want sex to prove their worth and strength as a man. They not only want to prove their competence in sex but also want to believe how youthfully zealous they are in the bed. Even they expect their women to act in a way that would make them feel manly and strong.

Tell Him What Turns You On!

To know what turns a woman on is what men want in bed. Many girls might feel shy while sharing their secrets with them but those of you who really want to make their men happy, should give it a try. Remember, share only what turns you on and never share what you don’t appreciate about love making. Sex is a fun thing, you better try to keep it positive.

Vocal and Loud Gals

Those groaning and moaning sounds are one of the biggest turn-ons for men. The more expressive a girl is, the manlier and sexually strong a man feels. Those ecstatic screams of a girl would make him believe that he is doing a really good job, which is driving her wild. Nothing could be more boring than a silent love making.

Oral Sex

Other than the usual sex in bed, men are crazy about oral sex. Men worship their cocks and they would expect the same from their ladies. What they really want in bed, is a mind-blowing blow job. It can really send him over the edge. Moreover, a woman can really drive her man wild with a little bit of eye contact to let him know how pleasured she is with all of it.

Try New Things!

Men simply adore women who are open to experiment with new things and that’s what men want in bed. Repeating the same old techniques of love making can make your sexual life boring and stagnant. To add some fun to it, it’s better to keep on trying new sex positions. There might be a few that she doesn’t like or vice versa. It is better to discuss them and find out a way that is acceptable for both of you.

Foreplay Matters!

The thinking that ‘only the penis matters’ is what disturbs men. He yearns for some added attraction before the final act. You can make him feel special by some naughty, and teasing moves. Even if you think that your man is not interested in the whole foreplay thing, take initiative and opt for something new like putting on sexy lingerie or trying role play.

Lingerie to Turn Him On

Many girls believe that men never pay heed to what they are wearing. All men need is what’s inside those wrappings. So, there is no use of spending so many bucks in buying a sexy lingerie. But that’s not true. A woman clad in lingerie is one of the biggest turn-ons for a man. Give it a try to turn on your man.

Dirty Talk

Piquing his interest by some dirty talk is another way of blowing his mind. Be it in the foreplay, during the sex or in a text message, let him know of what you feel about him and what you want to do with him. Men really like those dirty talks. So, next time you think of driving him crazy open up and TALK to him.

Let Him See!

What turns off a man instantly, is a girl always trying to cover her squishy parts with linens or by turning off the lights. That’s not what men want in bed. He wishes bold and sexy visuals. As they feel more stimulated with the visuals. So, if you really are concerned about making him happy in the bed, turn on the lights and let him look at your body.

Take the Initiative

Traditionally, a man is the one who always takes initiative in love making. And obviously, they don’t have an issue with that. But if a woman starts it all with the teasing acts like pushing him back, straddle him or grind to climax, he would be more than happy. Most of the girls wouldn’t opt for something like that out of shyness or hesitation. But taking a charge would really make a difference.

Love without Reservations

Men want their ladies to trust them, especially when they are together in a bed. To men, both genders should be open and vulnerable with each other. Men don’t like boundaries and restrictions. The same he demands from his lady. So, to make him really happy ladies should go out of their way to please him in the bed, without any reservations.